“Human experience is not neat and orderly, ready to be coded into predetermined categories. Real life is messy” 
― Jennifer Gold, Undiscovered Country

“Your home is full of joy, Sadie. And joy isn’t neat.” 
― Nathan Lowell, Ravenwood

“People worry about people they love.” His fingers tapped the keys. “They love each other, and love”–the line creased his forehead–“it’s pretty messy sometimes.” 
― Shelley Coriell, Welcome, Caller, This Is Chloe